question: [kwes-chuh n]/noun
1. a sentence in an interrogative form, addressed to someone in order to get information in reply.
2. a problem for discussion or under discussion; a matter for investigation.
3. a matter of some uncertainty or difficulty; problem (usually followed by of).
4. a subject of dispute or controversy.
Resilient people are resourceful, which means they enjoy the challenges presented by intriguing questions and the ambiguous situations or problems they may pose.
Such questions cause people to think more deeply about important things and to think thoughts that they otherwise would not have thought.
Here are two of my favorite questions:
• What would you do if you had more than enough money to support yourself and your family for a lifetime? What goals would you pursue and how would you spend your time?
• What significant challenge would you take on if you knew you could not fail? Or, put another way, what important things would you do if you were not afraid?
And here are a few questions that specifically address resilience:
• What core beliefs or principles would you not compromise?
• When will you stand firm, when will you bend, and how will you decide?
• What strengths do you bring to situations that require resilience?
• What people, groups, or other resources do you draw upon during challenging times for inspiration, clarity, and guidance?
• What lessons has your life taught you about surviving and even thriving during difficult times?
What are your favorite questions?