“You are doing this not only for your children and grandchildren,” I explain to hospice patients and their families as we begin to plan a video of their life stories. “This video is for generations not yet born, those who will follow you but will never know you personally.”
The stories patients tell during the videotaping typically describe the events of their lives.
But they are also stories of legacy in which patients discuss the challenges they faced, the lessons they learned, and the wisdom they offer to future generations.
Educators also have legacies that begin to accumulate from their earliest days in the classroom or principal’s office. Sometimes we only learn of those legacies many years later when students seek us out to tell us about the positive effect our words or actions had on their lives.
While some of our words and actions arise spontaneously in the moment, our legacies need not be totally left to chance.
We can intentionally affect our legacies by:
- Periodically reviewing the purposes and values that drew us to teaching and that may have continued to evolve since then.
- Reflecting on the extent to which our daily words and actions match those purposes and values.
- Preparing a “legacy statement” explaining the values and personal qualities we want to exemplify in our work. We can remind ourselves of our intentions each day by posting the statement in a planning book or by using digital tools. And we can further clarify and strengthen our commitment to those purposes by sharing these statements with others in the school community.
Whether we intend it or not, principals and teachers leave their mark on countless students across their careers.
By reflecting on the nature of the legacy we want to leave and by taking deliberate steps to cultivate those qualities in our lives, we are more likely at the end of careers to look back with satisfaction and to be able to articulate and offer our wisdom to those who follow.